When Women Walk Alone: The Reality and Responsibility of Staying Safe at Night
On the early morning of September 13, 2014, 18-year-old University of Virginia student Hannah Graham went missing while on her way to a party. Surveillance footage showed her walking through Charlottesville’s downtown shopping district in Virginia. Her last known activity was a text to a friend at 1:20 a.m., saying, “I’m lost, heading to another party.” Five weeks later, her remains were found in Albemarle County. A man named Jesse Matthew was later convicted of her murder.

This is a heartbreaking story—and a grim reflection of the deepest fears many women face when walking alone at night.
While we wish the world were safe, the reality is that walking alone, especially after dark, requires caution and preparation, particularly for women. This article is not meant to instill fear but to offer practical, non-violent, and actionable advice to help women move with greater confidence and security.
Why Do We Still Need to Talk About “Women’s Safety at Night”?
We cannot ignore the fact that, even in 2025, women still face a higher risk of assault on city streets, campus pathways, and even in familiar neighborhoods. According to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC), over 80% of sexual assault victims are women, and about 50% of attacks occur near locations the victim knows well.
The problem is not women walking at night—the problem is that society has not yet provided enough safety for them. Until that changes, we must prepare and protect ourselves.
The Power of Non-Violent Self-Defense: Personal Alarms and Safety Gear
While weapons can escalate risks, non-lethal safety tools have been proven lifesaving in critical moments. Here are some recommendations:
✅ WZU Personal Safety Alarm
This compact device improves upon traditional alarms with four structural innovations. When activated, it emits a piercing 120+ decibel siren to attract attention and deter attackers. Its hands-free design ensures it can’t be snatched away.
Attach it to a keychain or bag
Quick-pull activation, ideal for dark environments
Simple operation, suitable for women of all ages
✅ High-Lumen LED Flashlight or Wearable Light
Illuminates your path clearly at night
Increases visibility, reducing an attacker’s “stealth advantage”
✅ Safety Apps (e.g., Noonlight, bSafe, Citizen)
One-tap emergency alerts to friends or 911
Real-time GPS tracking for loved ones to monitor your route
Nighttime Walking Safety Checklist: Practical Steps You Can Take
✔ Plan Your Route Ahead
Stick to well-lit, populated streets
Avoid alleys, parking lots, and unlit areas
✔ Share Your Whereabouts
Inform a friend of your destination and ETA
Use location-sharing apps
✔ Stay Alert
Avoid headphones (or keep one ear free)
Be aware of suspicious people or trailing vehicles
✔ Avoid Walking Alone
Travel with a companion when possible
Coordinate rideshares before leaving parties/bars
✔ Keep Your Phone Charged & Accessible
Set up emergency speed-dial
Enable SOS features (available on iPhones and Androids)
What Really Needs to Change? Not Just Women’s Behavior
After Hannah Graham’s death, Charlottesville residents held vigils—and broader conversations about nighttime safety and urban oversight. While we encourage women to stay vigilant, carry safety tools, and make smart choices, the deeper issue remains: Women shouldn’t have to bear an extra survival cost just to walk home.
Society, governments, schools, and nightlife venues must prioritize:
Safe commute options (e.g., nighttime shuttle services)
Well-lit public walkways
Education for men on respect, boundaries, and active anti-harassment
Final Thoughts: Should We Be Afraid to Walk at Night?
No, we shouldn’t have to be. But we also can’t pretend danger doesn’t exist. Preparing ourselves is an act of self-respect—and changing the world is a shared responsibility.
Remember: Safety isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s wisdom and strength in action.
For yourself and the women you care about, stay alert and share this knowledge. May we one day walk freely and fearlessly through streets that belong to us all.
